“Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison — that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak. Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” (v. 2-6)
In this chapter, Paul is wrapping up his message to the Colossian believers. Before we dive in, let’s take a moment to review, and see how Paul got to where he is now.
Remember that Paul is writing to a church he did not start, and has never visited. Paul begins by writing of his love for this church, expressed in his constant prayers on their behalf. His example for us is that we also can express our greatest love for someone by being their prayer warrior.
Paul’s greatest concern for this church seems to be that false teachers might “take them captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits[a] of the world.” (2:8) He reminds them throughout the letter of the fundamental theology upon which their faith is founded, encouraging them to remain faithful.
In chapter 3, Paul reminded these believers of the things which their allegiance to Christ should have caused them to leave behind, such as sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness. In place of these evil attitudes and activities, they need to develop compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. It’s a good reminder for all of us also, that we cannot take something bad out of our own hearts without replacing it with something Godly. The empty space will always be refilled with something, and if we don’t allow God to fill it with His gracious nature, Satan will always step up to offer something worse.
Paul ended this chapter with a brief reminder about Godly relationships, within the family and also with employers. This is a condensed version of the same thoughts we’ve previously studied in Ephesians 5 and 6. Either of these books offers excellent direction on our most important temporal relationships; we just didn’t dive in here, having previously covered the same teaching in Ephesians.
Now Paul is wrapping it up with some final thoughts, perhaps already mindful that this might be his last and only message to this beloved church. “Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving.” Why “steadfast”? God doesn’t have a poor memory! I believe it’s more because of our own poor memory. Steadfast prayer is a way to demonstrate to God that we really mean it, that we truly earnestly desire what we’re asking for. Jesus taught His disciples to pray for their daily needs, not because God doesn’t already know, but to remind themselves that they are constantly dependent upon God for everything. That’s also why Paul emphasizes thanksgiving. By thanking God for what we’ve already received from His hand, we remind ourselves that God is faithful to provide, and generous in doing so.
“At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, …” Paul asked for prayer for his own ministry, leaving the example that we need to be steadfast in prayer for the ministries in which we are involved, either actively or simply by caring. Everyone reading this has neighbors who need to know and obey the gospel. They may have no faith at all; they may place their faith in science and knowledge; they may have a false self-assurance of salvation, having been ill-taught by false teachers. Are we praying for them? Are we praying for an opportunity to share truth with them?
There are other ministries which may seem quite far away, yet if we know of them, we ought to be praying for them. I may never see the shores of Senegal, for example, but I know Nate and Leah who are working there, and pray for their ministry. What far-away ministries are you praying for? Are you following Paul’s example?
“Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time.” Outsiders, to Paul, are unbelievers. In our modern world, we don’t always know who the unbelievers are; they’re not wearing labels! It’s best to always walk in wisdom, acting constantly in such a way as to maintain our credibility as ambassadors for Christ. Never let your guard down. Always interact with people in such a way that, should the opportunity arise, they will want to hear what you have to say about your own faith.
“Let your speech always be gracious, …” Our verbal presence may be the only interaction some people ever have with us. Do they experience compassion? Do they gain the impression that you genuinely care about them, about their feelings? If someone is having a bad day, did you make it better?
I’ll end this study with the same admonition Paul sent to Archippus, which applies equally to every one of us: “See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord.”