“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.”
I believe it was my father who first taught me that “nature abhors a vacuum”. I’m sure I heard it from my science teacher as well. Most believe the idea originated with Aristotle, although I wasn’t around to verify that. (Don’t let my daughters tell you otherwise!)
The concept begins in science, but applies to many walks of life, including spiritual life. If we remove some bad attitude or behavior from our lives, something else is going to fill in the vacuum and replace it.
Paul understood this. Having just listed many traits which must be “put to death” (v. 5), and of which we must “rid ourselves” (v. 8-9), he now encourages us to replace what we’ve set aside with good, Godly characteristics instead.
What things do we, as we learn to walk through this life as Christ did, need to add and make an intrinsic part of self? Here’s Paul’s list:
- compassion – Followers of Jesus should be, by nature, compassionate people. In Matthew 9, Jesus saw the crowds of people “helpless, like sheep without a shepherd”, and had compassion for them. In Luke 10, he told the parable of the “good Samaritan”, illustrating that compassion sees no boundaries of race or class.
- kindness – Jesus was always displaying his kindness, healing the sick and disabled, feeding the hungry, and teaching his disciples to do likewise.
- humility – A true disciple of Christ is always humble, following the example of his Master. Jesus left us the perfect example of humility, as Paul wrote in Philippians 2:5-9.
- gentleness – Gentleness is not weakness. No one could ever accuse Jesus of weakness, having destroyed the power of Satan forever! But in His kind, gentle spirit, He offers rest to the weary and burdened, and tenderly cares for His flock.
- patience – As disciples of Jesus, we must seek to respond to the weak and faltering with patience. Paul wrote of Jesus’ patience with him [Paul] as he wrote to Timothy.
- forgiveness – Paul gives us the highest possible standard to forgive others, “Forgive as the Lord forgave you”. So I ask you, how much has our Lord forgiven you? How much, therefore, is too much for you to forgive?
OK, so that’s quite the ambitious list of Godly attributes to develop! Why should we do this? Why make these changes in our character? Paul gives us the answer in verse 12:
- We are God’s chosen people! Do you remember on the school playground, how special it felt to be one of the first chosen for the team? We’ve been chosen for the best, greatest team in all of human history – God’s team!! You are very, very special, because God chose you, before the foundation of the world, to be His. Just a bit more humility and forgiveness certainly isn’t too much to ask.
- We are holy! That means we’ve been set apart, by God Himself. “These are mine”, he says. Do you remember the special dishes on Grandma’s top shelf, which we set apart for use on special occasions only? God has set you apart from the world, on His top shelf, for His exclusive use in His kingdom!
- We are dearly loved! Do you remember how you had that very special relative (grandfather in my case), who made you feel so special and loved that you never wanted to disappoint him or her in any way? Whoever that was for you, God loves you even more! God loves you so much, He gave the most precious gift for you that could ever be given.
What will we get out of this? What does this character transformation do for us? If we adopt these Christ-like attitudes, fully integrated into our hearts, we will find the “peace of Christ” giving us continuous calm and comfort.
OK, by this time you may be completely convinced, and just ready to learn how to get started. Once again, Paul comes through for us:
- Be thankful (v. 15). Gratitude constantly reminds us how much we’ve been blessed; how much Jesus has done for us; how much God has forgiven us. It’s so much easier to be compassionate, kind, humble, gentle, patient and forgiving while we’re thankful for all our own blessings; thankful for the kindness and patience God has shown to us.
- Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly (v. 16). Be filled with God’s Holy Word. To be “richly” filled, this isn’t just an occasionaly drive-by; we must be in His Word daily, soaking in it, meditating upon it.
We’re not putting all this into practice in our lives in a day, with time left over for a round of golf! This is a lifetime pursuit of holiness; a lifetime of preparation to live with our Savior forever. Will you join me?