“… knit together in love …”
This one really jumped out at me as I read the first half of Colossians 2 to our class. Did you ever see your mother, aunt or grandmother knitting? In my childhood, I was around my mother quite a bit while she was knitting. That memory created for me a powerful mental image of what Christian love should look like.
In knitting, I saw my mother take a single thread of yarn (or was it two?), and work with the yarn to create first a solid fabric, and eventually a scarf or sweater. Knit fabric is all tied together so tightly it creates a solid fabric. Each stitch supports and holds together the ones before and behind, above and below.
That’s what Christians loving each other should look like. John 13:34-35 records Jesus as saying “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
There’s quite a lot here, that I’ll explore in greater depth in other writings. For now, just notice three great truths about this jaw-dropping passage. First, Jesus said this was a new commandment. Humanity had been in existence for many, many generations. God had given the Israelites “the Law”, what we now consider the Old Law or the first five books of the Old Testament. In all of that time, thousands of years, God had never given anyone this command. Now, through Jesus, God is giving the disciples (and through them, all of us) a new command! That should make us sit up and take notice.
Second, it’s not just any sort of love that is commanded. Jesus didn’t say “I hope you like each other.” He didn’t command them just to put up with each other, quietly, without complaint. No, this is an all-encompassing sacrifical love, a love like no other. Jesus said “just as I have loved you.”
How did Jesus love His disciples, and us? He gave up the unimaginable glory of Heaven as one of the Holy Trinity to take on human form, to walk the dusty roads of Judea in sandals, to sweat under the hot sun, to soak in the cold rain. He didn’t come into the world as a member of a wealthy family, or an influential ruling family. He came as the son of a carpenter. “Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men.” (Philippians 2:5-7)
Moreover, he gave himself as a substitutionary sacrifice for our sins! “And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.” (Philippians 2:8) “And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him [Christ], having forgiven us all our trespasses, by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.” (Colossians 2:13-14) This is how Jesus loved his disciples!
Third, Jesus said that if we love each other as he loved us, His new command for us, that love would be distinctive within the world, and make us recognizable as His disciples. Nobody else loves others as sacrificially as Jesus loved us. This expectation implies that all people everywhere are hard-wired at birth to recognize such love, and to associate such love with God.
How about you? How about me? Is our love for our brothers and sisters in Christ so sacrificial, so distinctive that the un-saved world around us will recognize this love as something unique, something that could only proceed from a relationship with the Creator? Is our love a love that knits us together like a divine scarf, each stitch supporting the ones before and after, the ones above and below? Are we obeying out Savior’s command in John 13?