“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” (NIV)
One of Jeff Walling’s favorite instructions was “Whenever you see the word ‘therefore’, look back to see what it’s there for.” So let’s do just that. In verse 1, Paul says that “you have been raised with Christ”. In verse 5 he instructs us to “Put to death … whatever belongs to your earthly nature.” In verses 9-10 “you have … put on the new self”. By the time we get to verse 12, we have been raised with Christ, put to death the earthly nature, and put on the new self. Therefore …
Because of these things, we should clothe ourselves with specific Godly attributes. We’ll get to those in a moment, but I don’t want to skip over Paul’s parenthetical comments which tell us much about who we are in Christ.
First, we have been chosen. We didn’t just stumble into relationship with Christ by accident. Contrary to the understanding of some, we didn’t make a choice to come to Christ. We may think we did, but Jesus told his disciples in John 6:44 “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them.” I hope that makes you feel especially loved, as it does me. God chose YOU!!
Not only are we chosen, but having been chosen, we are holy, i.e. set apart. The dictionary does a good job with this word; “dedicated or consecrated to God”. We aren’t just common, ordinary people anymore. We’ve been chosen by God and consecrated to God for His purpose!
Not only chosen, not only holy, but also “dearly loved”. How dearly? Romans 5:8 answers that question: “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
Therefore … Paul admonishes us as chosen, holy and dearly loved people who have been raised with Christ, put of the old nature and put on the new self, to clothe ourselves, i.e., wrap ourselves in, cover ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Compassion, an empathy which motivates one to help another, to bear the burdens of another. Why should we be compassionate? Simply because God is compassionate. In the giving of the Old Testament Law in Exodus 22:27, God says “I am compassionate.” We are compassionate because we want to be like the One Who has chosen us.
Kindness: concern and consideration for others, shown with a pleasant and gentle spirit. In the Old Testament story of the Israelites, kindness was often remembered and returned, even across many generations. (1 Samuel 15:6)
Humility … I could write a book about humility, but others already have. I recommend Andrew Murray’s book, titled simply “Humility“. There can be no greater example of humility that Christ, “who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death — even death on a cross!” (Philippians 2:6-8)
Gentleness is a component of kindness, but goes beyond, describing our approach to all interactions with others. This is important in evangelism. “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” (1 Peter 3:15)
Likewise, Jesus is our example in patience, as Paul explained to Timothy: “I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life.” (1 Timothy 1:16)
God has chosen me, and you. He has set us apart for His purposes, in great love. He allows us to be raised in Christ, put off the old nature and put on the new. He expects that new nature to include compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Will I step up to meet God’s expectation of me? Will you?